Romance Scams

What are the signs of romance scams?

Romance scams are real, dangerous, and highly successful. They can be easy to spot because they follow these red flags:

1. Pressure to commit to a relationship before getting to know someone:

The scammers may tell you that the only way you can get your money back is if you enter into a relationship. They’ll be very pushy about you making a commitment or they’ll threaten you with the “other women,” telling you that they know about them.

Many con artists will go as far as promising their victims the ability to find a real husband or wife (using a common lie of some kind) as a way of coercing a vulnerable target. Often, scammers will use “real-life” examples to try and convince their victims that they’ll find someone if they just follow their advice and buy into their plans.

How can you avoid being scammed?

Never communicate with someone you’ve never met in person. It’s okay to take time to get to know someone, but never pay for an international travel or other expensive requests. Be cautious if a potential date does not reply to your messages, or if they stop replying to you altogether. Never send money to anyone you’ve never met in person, or to anyone who requests a wire transfer, prepaid card, or money order. Don’t fall for fake online dating profiles. Do some research on the person or the profile, and be cautious if you can’t find any details. Check out the person’s photo and the profile if you can. Never give out personal or financial information to someone you don’t know.

Why are romance scams happening these days?

There are a number of reasons why the number of romance scams are on the rise. However, there are still plenty of scams to go around. The love of money and love of deception are being used to drive people to steal and take advantage of those in need of their services. All too often, there are never even meeting face-to-face for a face-to-face romantic interaction. The criminal simply engages in a phone call, text, or message to get an in-person meeting for the potential for an emotional connection. Then, the criminal tries to exploit a person’s fragile emotions with ease, all while leading them on an emotional rollercoaster ride. After an initial first meeting, there will be no social media interaction for a prolonged period of time. No subsequent text or phone calls will be sent.

What will happen to the victims of a romance scam?

Romance scams are a complex issue that often take years to unravel and heal from. If you’re a victim of a romance scam, you will not only face the difficulties of heartbreak and the loss of money, you will also be haunted by self-doubt and anxiety. Just like there’s no one else to blame, it takes a great deal of courage to turn things around and start anew.

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These factors and other warning signs should not be taken lightly. In addition, on the national level, your online personal information is worth a lot of money. Criminals can take all of your personal information and misuse it to commit fraud or identity theft. Don’t feel as if you need to have a phone number or email address for emergency purposes. It’s better to be safe than sorry. While you should never give out money, people can be lured in to take on a romantic interest with another person. Taking a proactive approach to your security and privacy will help you avoid disaster. You can choose the privacy setting for your Facebook, Twitter, and other social media sites to have all your online communication be end-to-end encrypted.